After popping by some blogs of my friends, I keep on thinking, and thinking… and thinking... Before I get lost in my thoughts, I ought to pen them down.

Friends around me - Some of them are lost in their relationships. Some of them are in doubt of their other half. Some of them are wishing and hoping they would find someone they can rely on and confide to.

Its just pathetically ‘amazing’. I mean, out of billions and billions of people, why is it so difficult to find someone that’s meant for you? Is the time not ripe? Or is it because God wants you to take on the longer route?

We envy those in relationships. At the same time, we empathize those that get hurt in the process of love.

Sometimes our yearnings to love and be loved can’t simply be expressed, even by songs. Perhaps a piece of love song can evoke emotions in us. But it cannot put across every little thing we are currently experiencing.

We laugh, we joke and we present our happy side in front of the crowd. But that doesn’t mean we feel no misery. We hide our grief with a smile. Then when we are alone in our room, tears fall. However, the greatest pain of all would be having to put on a joyful and cool front in front of that someone who makes your heart flutter. The sad thing is, he doesn’t even know he is the one that can set butterflies in your stomach.

People who don’t know us formulate ill comments about us and they spread it to the rest like venom. They only know our ‘surface’ and based on that, they form negative perceptions. We have the irresistible urge to ask - why can’t they take the initiative to enter our world? Their words hurt our pride. Their comments sting our hearts. They make our days depressing. Still, we need to take things at our stride and move on. As we move on, we hold onto the belief that time will prove everything.

This is just like love. Fret not when love fails to come knocking at your door. You can’t seek love. All you can do is let love itself find you. If things are meant to be, fate will tie the both of you together. Or perhaps if not, it means there’s someone better out there still searching for you. Time will eventually show you the path and lead you to that castle where you and him live happily ever after.

To my dear friends (you know who you are),

If you are reading this now, bear in mind. Don’t cry because you can’t find him. Don’t sulk because you are still alone. When you learn to love yourself, things are sure to be going for the better. The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren’t paying attention to before. Thus, never be afraid to make mistakes, because we learn from our mistakes.

The cupid is the one that chooses the next person to shoot the love arrow at. Meanwhile as you wait for your turn, it is your choice to lead a happy or a grumbling life.

There comes a time in every life we find the heart we are looking for.